Family Update

The children have been home for the holidays. We have enjoyed time with them. Turi served her last month at Nova Pioneer. We held our second marriage seminar!  Our partnership with the Bible App- YouVersion, has begun to bear fruit. We launched our first Bible Plan. It is titled Sexual Purity and Destiny. You can get it here: https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/64169

Deliverance for S: Saturday 1st November 2025

Aman by the name S came for inner healing and restoration. S was experiencing marital troubles and childhood wounds. We started the session with forgiveness. It was overwhelming for him. He cooperated with the process amid tears, and came out feeling relieved. We are due for another session.

Premarital Season 13 Retreat: Saturday 1st November 2025

We completed season 13 of the premarital class with a hangout at Mamlaka Hill Chapel Ruaka. We had great food, fellowship and lots of fun. Here is a picture of the participants who attended.

Kenyatta University Christian Union: Sunday 2nd November 2025

Kenyatta University Christian Union invited me to speak on the subject “Love and Relationships.” This was done in their Sunday services. I preached in all three services from Genesis 2:15-18. The lecturer’s strike meant that the service was not fully attended, but we still had a great time in God’s presence.

Counselling for D and N: Tuesday 4th November 2025

A couples by the name D and N came for come counsel. We had a fruitful time. I gave them individual assignments to help them resolve relational issues they were facing. I will meet them later for a second session.

Deliverance for W: Wednesday 5th November 2025

A lady from Europe by the name W came for inner healing and restoration. Our session was held via Zoom. W had suffered a lot of rejection growing up. It had translated to poor romantic relationships. She was very contrite during the session and left feeling relieved. We are due for another session.

Deliverance for C: Thursday 6th November 2025

A lady by the name C came for inner healing and restoration. This was our third session. C had been progressing really well. We covered areas of guilt, shame and regret. We also handled negative family patterns. I gave her an assignment so that she could cover more ground in the process we are going through. We are due for one more session.

CITAM Naivasha Couples Dinner: Friday 7th November 2025

Christ Is The Answer Ministries (CITAM) Naivasha invited me to speak at their end-of-year couples dinner. The dinner was held at Enashipai Hotel in Naivasha. They had a great turnout. We had a great time looking at 1 Corinthians 13 and its application to our marriages.

Living Wells Church, Kikuyu: Saturday 8th November 2025

Living Wells Church invited me to speak at their youth conference. The conference was the first of its kind. They held it at the church grounds. Several youth from Kikuyu town showed up. We studied several scriptures and explored how to maximise and apply ourselves to God’s will in the area of sexuality and relationships.

KCA University: Sunday 9th November 2025

KCA University Christian Union invited me to speak in their Sunday church service. The topic was sexual addictions. I preached from 1 Thessalonians 4:1-5. The response was great. It was my first time ministering at the university Christian Union.

Indian Couples Fellowship: Sunday 9th November 2025

Turi and I held our monthly fellowship with the Indian couples in Parklands. Our friendships have really deepened. We addressed God’s forgiveness through the gospel and its application in our human relationships. This was our last meeting for 2025.

Family Media: 10th – 14th November 2025

Pastor Ted Wahome invited me to conduct the morning devotion at Family Media for a whole week. The topic was Family Brokenness and the Grace of God. Here are the recordings:
Monday: https://www.youtube.com/live/eENOBusFcjE?si=GmefzyoJ_GlWpN1b
Tuesday: https://www.youtube.com/live/0qPXNSqQID4?si=fWwgiiByrlRCqv37
Wednesday: https://www.youtube.com/live/MlxIlypdyfc?si=aqKc0WSREyxJhROD
Thursday: https://youtu.be/THTNio0LfdU?si=-mFAhuHcK4a_vOPo
Friday: https://www.youtube.com/live/URmjC04k3hM?si=FV7Z4Q3dR6FOKIz_

Hopes Camp CITAM Karen: Tuesday 11th November 2025

Christ Is The Answer Ministries (CITAM) Karen invited me to speak to their early teens at Hopes Camp. The camp was held in Lukenya. We talked about peer pressure and drawing boundaries in order to live sexually pure lives. We also had a session of healing from parental wounds. The teens cried a lot when we called them to come to the front for the altar call.

Deliverance for M: Tuesday 11th November 2025

A young woman by the name M came for inner healing and restoration. This was our final session. We covered stubborn areas that hinder spiritual progress. It was a short session. M was very glad to have taken part in this process.

Hopes Camp CITAM Valley Road: Wednesday 12th November 2025

Christ Is The Answer Ministries (CITAM) Valley Road invited me to speak to their early teens at Hopes Camp. The camp was held at Clarence Matheny, in Limuru. We talked about healing from parental wounds. This session was very emotional. The teens cried a lot. We ha d a great session of healing prayer. Three teens gave their lives to Christ.

Deliverance for F: Wednesday 12th November 2025

A lady by the name F came for inner healing and restoration. F had been carrying the weight of guilt from past sins she had never confessed. The session was very liberating for her. We are due for one more session.

Deliverance for W: Thursday 13th November 2025

We held the second session with W from Europe. She admitted that after the first session, she had been feeling lighter and free. We covered areas of sexual ties in this second session. The session was very cathartic for W. She felt even more relieved.

Deliverance for C: Friday 14th November 2025

Another lady from Europe by the name C came for inner healing and restoration. We also held it via Zoom. This was our third and final session. We covered areas of ungodly beliefs about God, self and others. The session was liberating for C. She was very grateful for having participated in the process.

Deliverance for K: Friday 14th November 2025

A lady by the name K came for inner healing and restoration. K had been dealing with lots of rejection. Her marriage was falling apart as well. The session was eye-opening for her. She cried in some instances. We are de for a second session.

Deliverance for L: Tuesday 18th November 2025

A woman by the name L came for inner healing and restoration. L had dabbled in witchcraft out of ignorance. It had cost her greatly. The session gave her lots of reprieve.

DC Christ Centre: Wednesday 19th November 2025

Deliverance Church (DC) Christ Centre in Kahawa Sukari invited me to speak in their youth conference. The session addressed sexual purity. We looked at the life of Joseph in Genesis, as we drew out life lessons for our sanctification.

Deliverance for B: Wednesday 19th November 2025

A lady by the name B came for inner healing and restoration. This was our first session, B had a long list of people to forgive. We covered some of them. She cried during the session and let the pain go. It gave her great relief. We are due for another session.

Deliverance for B: Thursday 20th November 2025

A gentleman by the name B came for inner healing and restoration. B was experiencing pain from betrayal, He was also battling some drug addiction. We made some good progress. We are due for a second session.

St. Paul’s University: Thursday 20th November 2025

St. Paul’s University Peer Counselling Club invited me to speak to student on the subject of godly relationships. The session as held at their main campus in Kabuku. The session was attended by students, staff and faculty. The feedback was great. They are planning to invite me for another session.

Karura Community Chapel: 21st to 22nd November 2025

Karura Community Chapel invited Waturi and I to speak at their premier Family Conference. It was held in the church grounds in Rosslyn, along Limuru Road. Waturi and I were speaking on maximizing the season of singlehood. Waturi spoke to the single ladies and I spoke to the single men. I was part of a panel discussion on the first day of the conference. It went really well. The organizing team did a great job.

PCEA Kiukenda: Saturday 22nd November 2025

The Presbyterian Church of East Africa (PCEA) Kiukenda Parish invited me to speak in their dating class. The session was on healing from parental wounds. The session became very emotional and the whole room was filed with crying people. By the grace of God, we exorcised two girls. They were restored and they submitted their lives to Jesus.

CITAM Ruiru YP Dinner: Saturday 22nd November 2025

Christ Is The Answer Ministries (CITAM) Ruiru planed for a Young Professionals (YP) Dinner at Verona Hotel in Ruiru. The topic was modern dating and marriage. We had a great roundtable discussion late into the evening. The attendees gave positive feedback.

Nairobi Chapel: Sunday 23rd November 2025

Pastor Bella invited me to speak to parents of children aged 0-11 years. The church had discovered a four-year-old who was addicted to pornography and they desired to equip parents with the tools to help navigate screens and technology. The session were well attended. Here are the recordings:
Part 1: https://youtu.be/G–M5SxcyPM?si=FiEf7g5njMZjK3Pg
Part 2: https://youtu.be/B47S8N_RInw?si=15JXOBO2gc72F1Pe

Deliverance for I: Monday 24th November 2025

A man by the name I came for inner healing and restoration. I was experiencing the pain of betrayal. He was also carrying the weight of several people he had not forgiven. We had our first session and he was pleasantly relieved. We are due for a second session.

Deliverance for C: Tuesday 25th November 2025

A young woman by the name C came for inner healing and restoration. C had been bullied a lot in school. She was also carrying the pain of being hurt by her father. She cried during the session and released those who had hurt her. We are due for a second session.

Deliverance for S: Tuesday 25th November 2025

A young woman by the name S came for inner healing and restoration. This was our second session. We covered areas of bitterness and unforgiveness. S had experienced lot of pain in her childhood. In this session we addressed parental wounds. We still have some more ground to cover. We are due for another session.

Deliverance for J: Wednesday 26th November 2025

A gentleman by the name J came for inner healing and restoration. This was our second and final session. We covered areas of ungodly beliefs about God, self, and others. The session ended really well and J was glad to have taken part in it.

Deliverance for K: Wednesday 26th November 2025

A lady by the name K came for inner healing and restoration. K had fallen into the trap of sexual sin and had made some horrible life choices. She was turning her life around and getting back on her feet. We covered the entire healing process in one session.

Deliverance for M: Wednesday 26th November 2025

A man by the name M came for inner healing and restoration. This was our third session. M is processing the wounds he received in his upbringing and how they are affecting his marriage. He has made good progress since we last met. I hope to meet him and his wife soon.

Marriage Tune Up Seminar: Friday 28th November 2025

We held our annual marriage seminar dubbed “Marriage Tune Up.” We held it at Mamlaka Hill Chapel, Ruaka. We had about 25 couples attend the event. Our anchor text was Romans 12:9-21. The feedback was great. We have formed a marriage WhatsApp community. We hope to use it to inspire more marriages to be gospel-centered.

University of Embu: Sunday 30^th November 2025

The University of Embu Christian Union invited me to speak in their Sunday services. I drove to Embu and preached in two services on the subject dating and courtship. The services were well-attended and the feedback was very positive.

TESTIMONY

Good evening Ernest, I want to let you know that after attending the Powerhouse program and now attending the pre-marital class, the fear of being open and vulnerable was lifted. I was afraid that if I confessed that I battle porn and masturbation, she would leave. The peace of God has been with me since I started to guard my eyes, and yesterday I confessed the top secret to my fiancé. Somehow the fear of losing her disappeared, and I wanted to be right with God, even as I work toward being a supernatural, natural, and romantic friend to my fiancé. I was surprised by her love, embrace, and grâce she extended to me, even as I continue to be moulded by God. I no longer watch porn and masturbate, and I remember from your lectures that it takes about two months to be okay. I am almost there, and the voice ´watch porn Now’ has faded, and is dying out. Thank you for being the light in my life.

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