Family Update

The year is progressing well. Our nanny is still unwell. The effects of the stroke are still wearing off. She can stand and walk slowly. The children were home for half-term. We took them on an adventure to the Nairobi National Park Orphanage. We went for lunch at Maasai Lodge and crossed the Kitengela Glass bridge. The children are growing in their resilience and courage. Our vehicle has become a money pit. We have spent so much money on it and it has become unreliable for long travels. We have had the car for 10 years. We got it at a mileage of 27,000 KM. It is currently at 270,000 KM. We have really covered distances. We would like to get some money, fix it and sell it.

Premarital Class Season 14: Sunday 1st, 8th, 15th & 22nd February 2026

We have completed more than half of the lessons of the premarital class season 14. The class is progressing well. We will be done by early April.

Speaking at World Vision: Monday 2nd February 2026

World Vision invited me to speak to their staff in their monthly service. It was a family themed service. I preached from Judges 17.

Podcast with KUZA: Monday 2nd February 2026

KUZA ministry invited me to speak on their podcast. They started a new segment that focused on individual teaching on topics that they are passionate about. I did a segment on Biblical masculinity. The episode will be out soon.

Deliverance for N: Tuesday 3rd February 2026

A lady by the name N came for inner healing and restoration. This session focused on healing from people who had hurt her. N’s deliverance involved breaking demonic strongholds of bitterness. It was a liberating session for her. We are set for another session.

Deliverance for E and E: Wednesday 4th February 2026

Two sisters came for inner healing and restoration. The girls had been severely emotionally hurt by their father. They carried a lot of pain towards him. The session was very long, but it bore fruit. We are set for another session.

Deliverance for M: Thursday 5th February 2026

A young man in his early twenties came to see me. He was battling an addiction to pirn and masturbation. We covered the inner healing assignment. He was very open and vulnerable in the session. When he went home, he sent me this message: “Thank you for your time and selflessness, Ernest. I feel very relieved.” 

Deliverance for X: Thursday 5th February 2026

A lady by the name X came for inner healing and restoration. X has been progressing well in our sessions. In this session we addressed idols in her life and negative family patterns that she had adopted form her family. The session was very therapeutic for X. She cried towards the end as she prayed over certain hurts in her life. She felt lighter after the session.

PCEA Kahawa Sukari: Friday 6th February 2026

Pastor Kuria Maina of PCEA Kahawa Sukari invited me to speak to the church’s ex-candidates. I spoke in two sessions. The first was on sexual purity and the second was on dating and relationships. The team of young people are preparing to get into campus.

Deliverance for N: Friday 6th February 2026

A woman by the name N came for inner healing and restoration. We have had a number of sessions with N and we are making good progress. We covered more areas of forgiveness. We also had to renounce certain occult practices that N had been involved in. It was clear that there was demonic opposition as we prayed, but we overcame Satan by the blood of Jesus and the word of our testimony. We are due for another session.

Indian Couples Fellowship: Sunday 8th February 2026

We had our monthly fellowship with the Indians at Parklands. We took them through a session on financial oneness in marriage. It was a great topic and it was good to see that there is a lot of unity in their finances.

The Identity Project Podcast: Tuesday 10th February 2026

Kevin Tindi invited me to speak in his podcast on the subject of purpose. Here is the recording: https://youtu.be/QSK5xY0MF5A?si=nA7YPvqe4nzcREbj

Deliverance for M: Tuesday 10th February 2026

A young lady by the name M came for inner healing and restoration. M had been in a toxic relationship. The person was verbally and emotionally abusive. She managed to end the relationship and block him but the man always found a way to get in touch with her and insult her. After she successfully cut him off, she was left with a wound of pain and bitterness. We helped M overcome the pain. She left feeling liberated. This was the message she sent me: “God bless you so much for the session you took me through. I was so relieved and now I am super glad that I’m completely freee!!”

Counselling for M: Tuesday 10th February 2026

A man called M came for counseling. He is going through. Tough time in his marriage. I have met him and his wife together and separately. Their progress is not encouraging, but we are hoping to see some change.

Daystar University: Wednesday 11th February 2026

Daystar University invited me to speak in their ex-candidates leadership program. On this day, I addressed Biblical sexuality and God’s will for our lives.

Deliverance for N: Wednesday 11th February 2026

I had another session with N. We still covered the forgiveness list. We also touched on some past romantic relationships that brought pain. The session was very liberating. N is getting stronger by the day.

Deliverance for N: Thursday 12th February 2026

I had another lady by the name N also come in for the session. N was in a relationship with a man who had been sleeping around. She had been struggling to let go of the man because they had been together for five years. She was also very bitter because of the pain she was feeling from the betrayal. She cried a lot during the session, but she eventually forgave and released the pain. She needs to end the relationship and that is her biggest fear.

Men’s Circle: Thursday 12th February 2026

I was invited by a fellowship called Men’s Circle to speak to them on overcoming the negative cycles in relationships. Men’s Circle is a men ’s-only initiative that aims to help men become godly and remain healthily focused in their lives. I had a good time with the men. The feedback was good.

Karura Community Chapel: 13th to 15th February 2026

Turi and I were invited by Karura Community Chapel to speak to their married couple at Lake Elementaita Mountain Lodge. This was their Valentine’s retreat. We spent the weekend with the couples and taught in four sessions. It was a refreshing time to meet new friends and to also get a break.

Deliverance for E and E: Tuesday 17th February 2026

I met the sisters for the second time. They came back more radiant than our first meeting. We covered the forgiveness list. We are still not done with it. We also had to renounce certain involvement in the occult that the sisters dabbles in unknowingly. We are due for another session.

Daystar University: Wednesday 18th February 2026

The Daystar ex-cans program invited me to conduct a second session on relationships and dating. I had a great interactive time with the students as I counseled them on making godly decisions in their dating lives in campus.

Deliverance for N: Thursday 19th February 2026

We hosted N again for a continuation of the inner healing and restoration sessions. We covered areas of idolatry and transgression. N was feeling burdened by past sins. Guilt, shame, and regret had weighed her down. We processed all these things. It was a very teary session, but she left feeling victorious.

Africa Nazarene University: Friday 20th February 2026

Pastor Charles Onyango, the chaplain at Africa Nazarene University, invited me to speak at their intervarsity vigil dubbed SHEMA worship night. Shema is a Hebrew word that means listen and obey. I spoke from Colossians 2 based on the theme of the event- Rooted in Christ; Hearing His Voice.

Deliverance for S: Saturday 21st February 2026

A lady by the name S came for inner healing and restoration. S had suffered from parental wounds. She was also carrying the weight of guilt from a life of sexual sin. We covered the forgiveness list and the sexual ties list. S was emotionally overwhelmed in some parts. The session was cathartic for her. We are due for a second session.

PCEA Kileleshwa Youth Dinner: Friday 27th February 2026

Pastor Sam Kimui of PCEA Kileleshwa invited me to speak at the church’s youth Valentine’s dinner. I spoke from Genesis 2:15-18. It was a wonderful evening.

Testimony

Good evening Ernest. Nimekuja kusema asante. If there’s a way we have seen God look out for us, our marriage, is through your pre-marital class and the conflict resolution series. We had a very poor foundation for our marriage and a very unhealthy way of resolving conflict but thanks to you and your wife that’s in the past now. We now understand marriage, what it is and its gravity and we constantly remind each other on the transforming truths from Baesics. We are still very much ‘work in progress’ but we are delighted that the steps are in the right direction and with the right, same mindset. Testimony time… Yesterday we had a conflict and for the first time in 5 years, we actually resolved a conflict! He didn’t walk out, neither did I sweet it under the carpet. We dissected it and were able to understand where each of us was coming from and reached a common ground. Like it worked! I am persuaded that this is one testimony among many to come. To God be the glory and thank you so much for being a blessing to us and our children. Mimi, I am an ambassador for this class. 

MINISTRY UPDATES

We  are having our very first Logos Festival event. The event is to celebrate the word of God. The date is Saturday, 11^th April 2026. Here is the poster:

Your giving enables us to create time to teach, preach, and meet the financial needs of our ministry & our home. Through your giving, you help us touch countless lives. You also help spread the Gospel & break bondages in the lives of people we would otherwise not reach. Thank you for partnering in our vision: saving the world, one relationship at a time.

Hebrews 6:10 God is not unjust; he will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you have helped his people and continue to help them. (NIV)

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Account: Your Name (It will read THE RELATIONSHIP CTR)